When I was no but sweet sixteen
With beauty just a-blooming-o
It’s little little did I think
At nineteen I'd be greeting-o
For
the ploughboy lads they're gey braw lads
But they're
false and they're deceiving-o
For
they'll take your all and they'll gang awa
And
leave their lasses grieving-o
(Scottish
Folk Song)
Last year,
our cottage in Colonel Street, Portpatrick celebrated (if that’s the right
word) 50 years as a holiday home, having been bought for that purpose by my
Aunt in 1966. Before then, however, it was a real home to many people for
nearly 150 years. In this article, I will tell the tale of Jane (Jeanie) Laing,
who lived in the cottage for over 10 years in the 1890s and 1900s. It is a
notable story of a woman making her way in the very different environment of 19th
century rural Scotland.
Jeanie
was born Jane Stewart, sometime around 1844 at High Ardwell farm, Stoneykirk parish.
There is no official record of her birthdate; prior to 1855, recording births
was optional in Scotland and many parents did not do so. Jeanie's parents, Andrew and Jane
Stewart, were agricultural workers, living in a cottage on the farm. If the
records can be believed, Andrew was 74 when Jeanie was born. Her mother was
Andrew’s second wife; he had had six children by his late first wife and had
survived most of them. Jeanie’s mother, who was around 34 when Jane was born,
had another daughter by Andrew: Mary, who was three years older than
Jeanie.
Andrew
Stewart had been born in Portpatrick parish but had lived for over 40 years in
Stoneykirk. As a long established and experienced farm worker, Andrew is likely
to have been a “benefit man”, better paid and more secure than a day labourer
(who on the Rhinns were often Irish immigrants), but lower in the hierarchy
than ploughmen or shepherds. The author of the 1845 New Statistical Account for
the neighbouring parish of Kirkmaiden listed the annual rewards that a married
benefit man received:
“L9
of money; 5 Galloway bolls of potatoes and two bushels planted; 52 stones of
17lb oatmeal; 2 tons or 48 cwt of coals, with house and garden”.
Andrew’s wife
also worked on the farm as an “in and out worker”, carrying out tasks in the
farmhouse or outdoors as needed. Then as now, mixed farming was practiced in
the area, with wheat, oats, potatoes and turnips grown alongside the pasturing
of livestock. Jeanie and Mary would have also been called upon to help out from
a young age.
High Ardwell farm, where Jeanie Laing was born in 1844 |
High Ardwell
farm is now a rather isolated place, largely off the tourist track. When Jeanie
was growing up, however, the population in the area was higher than today and there would have
been a thriving local community. The village of Clachanmore was half a mile
away and in the 19th century had a school, general store, smithy and
joiner’s shop (all long gone).
Andrew
Stewart died in 1855, apparently at the age of 85; again there is no record of
his birth to confirm his age. Several of the characters in this story and in my
other accounts of the Rhins in the19th century lived, like Andrew,
to a ripe old age. At that time, longevity was largely a matter of surviving
childhood (and for women surviving childbirth) and in adulthood avoiding
infections and accidents. The Rhinns lifestyle, with a diet based on oats and
herrings and plenty of physical exercise, may well have protected people from
modern “degenerative” conditions such as cancer and cardio-vascular disease.
Sometime
after Andrew Stewart’s death, his widow and daughter Jeanie went to work at the
Logan estate, the country residence of the local landowners, the McDouall
family (Jeanie’s elder sister Mary had left home and was a domestic servant in
Stoneykirk village). Jane Stewart became the Logan estate’s hen keeper and
Jeanie a laundrymaid at Logan House. They lived together in Hen Knowe, a
cottage in the grounds of the estate.
The McDouall
family had been Lairds of that part of the Rhins since the 13th
century. The Laird at the time was Colonel James McDouall. Like many 19th
century country houses, Logan estate was a virtually self-sufficient community,
with the adjacent Mains farm providing the big house with food. In 1861, when
Jeanie and her mother were living on the estate, the staff at Logan House included
a butler, housekeeper, coachman and a lady’s companion for the Laird’s 82 year
old mother, along with a number of domestic servants. On the Mains, overseen by
the Laird’s Landservant, lived a gamekeeper, blacksmiths, gardeners, ploughmen
and dairymaids and a troop of agricultural labourers. While many who lived on
the estate were born locally, not all were and there was likely to be a
continual level of turnover of staff.
In this
rather campus-like environment it was inevitable that relationships were formed
and in 1864, at the age of 20, Jeanie Stewart fell pregnant. Her daughter Annie
was born on 19th December. Jeanie may well have known who Annie’s
father was and may well have wanted his name to be recorded on her birth
certificate, but the law prevented this from happening. In a classic example of
male-centredness, in 19th century Scotland the name of the father of
an illegitimate child could only be recorded if the father agreed and signed
the register in person, or if he was named in a paternity suit. Unsurprisingly,
the majority of illegitimate children at that time had no father named.
Jeanie was by
no means unique in rural Galloway in having an illegitimate child. In the 19th
century, Galloway had one of the highest illegitimacy rates in Scotland, close
to the highest in Europe (a distinction shared with north-east Scotland, a
similar mixed-farming area). Illegitimacy was most common among farm workers
and domestic servants, who, like the lads and lassies on Logan estate, were
often young and working away from home. Whether Annie’s father was a “ploughboy
lad” as in the song we will never know, but Jeanie had another characteristic
of local mothers of illegitimate children: her own mother, with whom she still
lived, was available to help bring Annie up. Many a Galloway household listed
“grandchildren” on census returns, youngsters being brought up by older grandparents
while their single mothers returned to domestic service.
For middle
and upper class women during the Victorian era, an illegitimate child almost
invariably meant social ruin and it would be rare for
the mother to subsequently marry. It was of course different for middle-class
men, who were allowed to be sexually experienced at marriage and would
sometimes, if available, resort to prostitutes to achieve this (Stranraer was
at the time one of the few country towns in Scotland to have a substantial
number of prostitutes, due to its status as a transit port for Ireland). Different
attitudes tended to prevail among the rural working class and in 1867, Jeanie,
now 22, married Peter Laing, an 18 year old groom at Logan House. Jeanie was,
however, four months pregnant with Peter’s child.
The ceremony
was conducted at Logan House and one of the witnesses was James McDouall,
possibly the Laird himself, but more likely his son, who was to inherit the
estate on his father’s death. The younger James’s wife Agnes, whom he married
in 1869, greatly modernised both the house and the grounds and their sons,
Kenneth and Douglas, established the exotic gardens that are now a tourist attraction.
Jeanie and
Peter’s first son John was born at Logan House in 1868 and two years later they
had another son, William. By the time of William’s birth, however, their
marriage had effectively ended, as Jeanie and her mother had returned without
Peter to High Ardwell farm, where William was born on 31st December
1870. Peter had not been born locally and he left the district before William’s
birth. I have not been able to trace his subsequent movements, but it seems
that he continued to work as a gentleman’s servant and apparently supported
Jeanie and his sons financially, as in several subsequent census entries
Jeanie did not have an occupation but called herself “a domestic servant’s
wife”.
By 1871,
Jeanie, her mother and Jeanie’s three young children had moved down the road to
Low Ardwell farm, near Clachanmore village. In practice, it is likely that
Jeanie and her mother raised the children between them while both carrying out
farm work. This arrangement continued until Jane Stewart’s death at the age of
79 at Kirkmabreck, another local farm, in 1879.
Following her
mother’s death, Jeanie moved to Portpatrick. In 1881 she was living in a flat
in Colonel Street (not at our cottage at this stage), with John, 13 and
William, 10, Annie having left home. She described herself as a “valet’s wife”.
She was living in this flat when, in 1882, at the age of 40, she became
pregnant again, her fourth child Maggie being born on 18th March
1883. Peter Laing was named as Jeanie’s husband on Maggie’s birth certificate,
but the registrar blandly wrote that Jeanie, “declares that he is not the
father of the child, and farther, that she has had no personal communication
with him for several years past”. The identity of Maggie’s father was not
recorded.
Sometime after
this, Jeanie took on her first paid occupation since her days at Logan House,
as by 1891 she had moved into our cottage and was working as a laundress.
Maggie, 8 years old, was with her, but John and William had now moved away. We
can only speculate as to why, in her 40s, she needed to earn her own living. She
still described herself as married in the 1891 census return, but perhaps her
supply of money from Peter had run dry – could the arrival of Maggie have been
a factor?
Her choice of
occupation was understandable given her circumstances. Laundry work was one of
the few occupations open to working-class women in the Victorian era and it had
the advantage for a single mother that it could be carried out at home. It was
not, however an easy option. The reason why those who could afford to paid
others to do their washing was that in the era before automatic washing
machines, laundry was time consuming, strenuous and took up a lot of space. A
large load of washing could take several days to wash, rinse, dry, starch and
iron. Our cottage was however an ideal home for a professional laundress, as it
had a separate scullery to keep the washing equipment in and a small garden for
drying clothes and linen.
This rusty old flatiron has served as a doorstop in our cottage for many years - could it have been there since Jeanie's time? |
In Victorian
England, laundresses were often married women, supplementing their husbands’
income (or providing an income that feckless husbands did not), but in
Portpatrick, laundresses, like Jeanie, tended to be single. Married or single,
laundresses did not have a high reputation. They were often portrayed as
dishevelled, rough in habits, uneducated and poor. Did Jeanie conform to this
stereotype?
It is not
clear who her customers were. Portpatrick did not have an extensive middle
class, but hard-pressed poor families, often living in one or two rooms, would
sometimes save themselves further trouble by paying others to do their washing.
It is also possible that Jeanie got business from the “boarding houses” (guest
houses) that were appearing in Portpatrick as it began to become a holiday
resort. Whoever her customers were, Jeanie would not have made a lot of money
from her labours as laundry work was notoriously ill-paid.
Prior to
Jeanie moving in, as I have related in another article, our cottage had been
home for some 18 years to its owner Agnes Shearer, who inherited it from her
mason father. She shared the cottage with her niece Margaret Cosh and Margaret’s daughter, Margaret junior,
who like Maggie Laing, was illegitimate. It is interesting to know that our
holiday home was formerly a haven for fallen women! Following Agnes’s death in
1887, Margaret Cosh, now joint owner of the cottage with her Irish-based
sisters, moved to Ireland herself, renting the cottage to Jeanie Laing.
Jeanie and
Maggie were still living in the cottage in 1901, Jeanie continuing to work as a laundress
and Maggie presumably assisting her. A few years after, they moved to South
Crescent and then to the former lighthouse keeper’s cottage on the pier (now a
holiday home next to the Lighthouse Pottery), where Jeanie spent the rest of
her life. In 1907 Maggie married Robert Mochan, a journeyman mason from
Ayrshire and moved there with him. Sadly, she was to die before her mother,
succumbing to tuberculosis in 1922, aged 39. On her death certificate, Peter
Laing was named as her father.
Lighthouse Cottage (the whitewashed building on the right), where Jeannie Laing lived for the final 25 years of her long life |
Peter Laing
had himself died by 1911, having apparently reached the rank of butler. Jeanie lived on in Lighthouse Cottage for
another 18 years until her death in 1929 at the age of 85.
So ended
Jeanie Laing’s long and remarkable life. However, this is not yet the end of
our story, or of the Laings’ connection with our cottage in Colonel Street.
Jeannie’s second son, William had done well for himself. He had moved to Glasgow
and worked as a telegraph lineman on the railways. He married Margaret Hamilton
from Stranraer in 1911 and by the time of his mother’s death they were living
in Perth with their three daughters and William had risen to be a railway
telegraph inspector. Then in 1930, the year after Jeanie’s death, Margaret Hamilton
Laing made a “buy to let” purchase of a cottage in Portpatrick – none other
than 3 Colonel Street, Jeanie’s former base for her laundry work and now our
holiday home. And she had a specific tenant in mind: Annie McMurray, the 64
year old widow of Samuel McMurray, a marine engineer. She had been born Annie
Stewart – Jeanie’s eldest daughter and Margaret Hamilton Laing’s sister-in-law.
If Margaret
thought that this would be a short-term arrangement she was mistaken, for Annie
McMurray lived in the cottage for 24 years, until her death in 1954 at the age
of 88. William Laing died that same year, aged 84 and Margaret Hamilton Laing,
now living in retirement in Largs, sold the cottage. Two years later it first came
into my family, bought by my great aunt Elsie Dicks (I have told the tale of
the Dicks family in another article).
So Jeanie
Laing and her family had links with our cottage for a total of at least 35
years. But, with her colourful history, what kind of a person was Jeanie? Was
she a feckless good-time girl, the epitome of the rough and uncivilised washer
woman (in the 19th century, laundry work was sometimes a cover for prostitution, and Stranraer had a thriving red light district due to being a port for Ireland), or a strong and independent woman who lived life her own way and did the
best for her children? I suspect the latter. Her long life and its relative
comfort in her later years suggests that she looked after herself and her money. Her younger
son made a good career and her daughters made good marriages (I don’t know what
became of her older son, John). And her family seem to have regarded her
fondly. In Portpatrick cemetery there is a memorial to Jeanie, William and
Margaret and Annie McMurray, presumably erected after Margaret’s death in 1966
by William and Margaret’s children. The legend reads, “The Lord is my Shepherd”
– perhaps an unconscious reference to Jeanie’s beginnings on a windswept farm
in Ardwell, 120 years previously.
Sources & Further Reading
Census
returns, valuation rolls and birth, marriage and death certificates available
at Scotland’s People
The New Statistical Account ofKirkmaiden, by the
Rev. John Lamb
Dumfries
& Galloway Libraries, Information & Archives (1998) Through the lens: Glimpses of old South
Rhinns.
Griffiths T
& Morton G (eds) (2010) A History of
Everyday Life in Scotland, 1800 – 1900. Edinburgh University Press.
Malcolmson P
(1986) English Laundresses, a Social
History 1850 -1930. Urbana: University of Illinois Press.
Smout TC
(1986) A Century of the Scottish People,
1830 – 1950. London: Collins.